How To Motivate The Children To Study?
Just try putting yourself in place of your kid and think!
I think the key is to understand your
child first. What are their strengths and passions? How do they spend time when
they can do whatever they want? If they like Lego then teach fractions using
Lego. If they're great at video games then try to make learning a game. If
they're naturally competitive then challenge them, but if they give up easily,
then give them assignments they can accomplish and avoid frustrating them.
U
cannot make them interested in studying!
Just try to make them more practical
towards life, teach them the POWER of Education and make them realize the value
of Reading, you can do so by showing them or telling them that if they will not
study than what can be the consequences( do not scare them though)
Just politely tell the consequences and that if they do study well, they can
enjoy a good life.
Appreciations!
Parents are the most that a child believes and expects their appreciation. These appreciations will motivate him and later on, he realizes his strengths in any one field and it becomes a passion. Bring that fire in him to achieve. Rub the ego in him to achieve.
Helping a child to self manage, all her work, is a great and
valuable effort. It has to be done in a manner, that a child takes it
effortlessly.
Few tips below which
will definitely help you.
Talk to your child: It’s important to get your
child’s perspective on their interests and abilities. Listen to the child and
offer your own observations as to where their greatest strengths lie. You may
be surprised to learn that your child is interested in a subject that you
weren’t aware of.
Adjust your
expectations: Set your highest expectations for your child with the subjects that most
interest them and where they have the greatest ability. Make it clear to your
child that with subjects where they have little interest or ability.
Celebrate achievements,
no matter how small - Completing a book report calls for a special treat; finishing a book
allows your child an hour of video games. You'll offer positive reinforcement
that will inspire him to keep learning and challenging himself.
Make
it a routine: Keep set time aside every day and stick to the schedule. If your
child dawdles over homework, I suggest using a timer and a reward system.
"Finish homework before the timer rings and you get a special
dessert."
Make
it a family activity: Sit down with your child and tackle it together. Keep it light
and more of a "discover together" kind of activity
Learn
from multiple sources: This not only makes it interesting but
makes it easier to remember information. Math can be learned from Khan Academy,
History from various documentaries, Science also from videos or if possible, do
experiments yourselves. Spend weekends going to the library, museums, field
trips.
Remove
distractions: When it is study time, no talking, no music, no TV and no
getting up till you're done. This doesn't mean just the kids, even the adults
switch everything off. Separate the kids to ensure less distraction/fighting.
Reward
systems: This really works especially in cases where the child hates a
certain subject. Provide all of the above support and add an extra incentive.
Learning for the sake of learning doesn't happen in younger children- they need
to be externally motivated.
Make
it challenging: Set small quizzes or worksheets on the subject. Makeup puzzles
and encourage your child to think and apply what he has learned. This will make
it fun and also will show your child how theory is turned into the practical.
No
punishments: If the child doesn't meet stated expectations, he simply loses
out on the reward. Please don't punish or yell at the child- Studying/Learning
should be a positive experience, not a stressful one.
Set the example: If
you love to learn and show it, there is NO better motivation for the child. If
you want your child to read, you should show how much you love to read. There
is no point in yelling at your child to hit the books, while you watch TV for
hours!
Stop comparing your child with another child: Yes, comparison literally affects the child’s confidence level. Every child is unique in his or her own way. The schools try to identify that talent and parents should try to encourage their children to pursue their talent as a profession. Don’t let your dreams hinder the potential of your child. A doctor’s son need not be a doctor. He can become a football player too.
The child should always have a feeling that his/her parents are available always. An unconditional love and acceptance of the child, with all his/her strength and weakness, is a starting point. We should not push the child to compete, but prepare her to do her best.
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