How to build a great relationship with your child

Parents and Child Bonding

Bonding with kids is an essential aspect of parenting. Kids look toward their parents as friends and teachers. for every question kids have they come to their parents because they know parents are always there to help them.

It is seen that most infants are ready to bond with the parents, especially the mother, since the moment they enter this world. However, some parents may feel immensely attached to the baby when they are born while others take time. There is no doubt that parents and children are hardwired to bond. However, in some cases, it may require a little effort. How you want to bond with your child depends upon your personality as well as the age of the child. Though there are no set rules here, the following tips can work with your own young children or adopted child.

Read a book together - This is something that you can do every day. help in child development as well. It’s best to make it a routine. Not only will this enrich your child’s vocabulary, but it will give you an idea of how your child sees the world. Reading aloud and discussing the story can help you and your child interact in a way that you could never imagine.

Go on a family date - You can also bond with your children while connecting with nature. Go for a walk in the park or take them to the zoo or a play zone. Do whatever your kids love to do and bind with your little one.

Give a touch of encouragement - Be it a pat on the shoulder, or a high five or a simple or goodnight kisses, these gentle touches are important for a child to feel connected. Hold them gently and lovingly. The warmth of touch makes the child feel secure and loved. However, this may change as children grow into teenagers and they may not be as receptive as they were when they were young.

Listen to your kid - Talk to your child like they are a grown-up. these little human people who literally depend on you and nothing about life has hit them yet. Their minds are racing they want you to hear them. Not just when they need something. listening to them and talking to them like you would with another adult. Make them feel and let them know that they make you so happy when they listen to you and tell them about your day too

Play with them - the best way to bond with a child is by spending time with the child, playing with the child, etc. There are so many activities you can do together that don’t involve electronic gadgets - you can play, make stuff, cook, garden, clean the house - all of these activities are daily activities that can be made fun when they’re shared with a child. I would advise you to limit the time spent by your child watching TV or playing with electronic gadgets. While it might make your life easier to plonk your child in front of the TV while you get on with other stuff and chores, doing all that stuff together will be much more fun for you as well as your child. Children learn best through play so make an effort to turn daily activities (washing, dressing, shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc) into fun activities for both of you.

Be a caring parent -  This means you feed them and physically care for them. It means you give them enough structure so that they get food at expected times and enough time to sleep, for example. Sometimes children need comfort.

Celebrate the birthday of your kids - Make your kids birthday remarkable. Invite other kids and friends. you can hire a birthday party hall for the same.